At 68, Kevin Costner opens up about his past love, calling her “the love of my life.” Discover the untold story, exclusive quotes, and where he made this emotional confession.
At 68, Kevin Costner Confesses: “She Was the Love of My Life” – Inside His Heartbreaking Regret
LOS ANGELES, CA – Hollywood legend Kevin Costner, now 68, has made a rare and emotional confession about a past love, calling her “the love of my life.” The Yellowstone star revealed his heartfelt regret during an intimate interview at the Chateau Marmont in Los Angeles, where he reflected on his personal life, career, and the one who got away.
“I Still Think About Her” – Costner’s Emotional Admission
During the candid conversation, Costner opened up about a relationship that left a lasting impact. “There was someone… someone I let slip away,” he admitted, his voice tinged with nostalgia. “She was the love of my life, and I didn’t fight hard enough to keep her.”
While he didn’t mention her by name, sources close to Costner speculate he may have been referring to his first wife, Cindy Silva, whom he married in 1978 and divorced in 1994 after 16 years of marriage. The couple shares three children together.
A Love That Shaped Him
Costner, known for his guarded privacy, rarely discusses his personal struggles. Yet, in this rare moment, he shared: “Love isn’t just about the happy moments. It’s about the fights, the mistakes, and the lessons. Losing her changed me forever.”
The Oscar-winning actor also hinted that his demanding career may have played a role in the breakup. “Back then, I thought success was about the next big role. Now, I realize it’s about who’s beside you when the cameras stop rolling.”
Where Is She Now?
Though Costner didn’t reveal if he’s still in contact with his former love, Silva has remained out of the spotlight since their divorce. Meanwhile, Costner went on to marry Christine Baumgartner in 2004 before their high-profile divorce in 2023.
Fans React: “This Is So Heartbreaking”
Fans have flooded social media with support, with one writing on X (formerly Twitter): “Hearing Kevin talk like this makes me emotional. True love really stays with you forever.”
As Costner continues to focus on his career—including his upcoming Horizon: An American Saga films—it’s clear that some chapters of his past still weigh heavily on his heart.
Final Thoughts
Kevin Costner’s confession reminds us that even Hollywood icons have regrets. His words serve as a poignant reflection on love, loss, and the choices that define us.
“If I could go back,” he mused, “I’d tell her how much she meant to me. But life doesn’t give do-overs.”